You’ve definitely felt that sting at one point or another; you didn’t get invited to someone’s birthday party as a kid, you got rejected by our crush in high school, you just can’t seem to make that one coworker happy. Let’s be honest, not everyone is going to like you, much as you’d like them to. But you know what? That’s just fine. Here are three reasons why:
You’re unique among billions. There sure are a lot of people on the planet, roughly 7.5 billion people, in fact. Each of those people is unique, with their own tastes, their own way of being, and it’s absolutely impossible to please all of them. But nobody ever said you had to anyway! You won’t be everyone’s cup of tea, and that just means you’ll be extra special to the people who do like you.
It’s not you, it’s them. Sometimes other people really are the problem. Be it a lack of tolerance, a bad disposition, or maybe even a rough patch in their lives, not everyone will even be open to the possibility of liking you. Those are circumstances outside your control, and it’s best to accept the things you cannot change.
Time and energy are precious resources. If anything, not being liked by everyone is a valuable tool. It can help you decide who in your life is worth spending time and energy on. You only have limited amounts of each, spend them wisely!
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